I am sorry to hear that really. I think this is two different things we are talking about. Ending a no hope terminal illness early or suicide because of a mental or emotional issue. The former I cannot really say, I think it is really up to the family and individual involved, and in those situations sometimes its the family that is being selfish if the person who is terminally ill, is in extreme pain. I have no idea when it is wrong/right, but sometimes its just like what they said with the obscenity laws, "You know it when you see it.
Again, I am truly sorry and hope that you know my statements were directed at you. I am coming off of a bad situation where it was for total selfish reasons from the person (who is healthy and financially okay) tried to take their own life. And yes I feel guilty and angry at the same time still, and I have gone through therapy to deal with that guilt of being angry.
Hey there, I didn't take your comments as being aimed me, so no worries, okay? Quite the opposite. I've appreciated this conversation from everyone participating. Truly.
But to be clear, I am not terminal. I apologize if I presented it in a way that came across as such. I am however, facing facts. My heart very possibly may not last many more years. I have mitral valve prolapse with AFib and two
mitraclips on my heart. I was too high risk for open heart surgery so my specialists chose the mitraclip route. All this happened during 2020, the first year of the pandemic. Just a few months after I lost my Labrador with no warning, to cancer. Not a fun time for sure.
For some reason over Labor Day, my AFib, that previously had never bothered me, went bonkers. Almost 2 years to the day after it was diagnosed. The doctors at the hospital think the SoCal heat wave set it off. All I know is it was scary as hell. My heart rate was averaging 150 and my BNP was 2300 which is ridiculously high and translates into "heart failure". It took 4 days and many IV's of Amiodarone, to get my heart back into sinus rhythm. I was so sick I honestly wanted to die. Amiodarone is the gold standard for treating AFib but it made me so nauseous and felt like my head would explode. It was the absolute worst headache of my life. Amiodarone is a short term drug since (among other things) it can go after your lungs and vision.
Bottom line, I don't ever want to go through that experience again. Thankfully, I don't currently need an ablation. I now take Flecainide and it's keeping everything under control. My Apple watch also keeps tabs monitoring things so I'm grateful Apple still supports the Watch 4.
I told my electrophysiologist when I first met him, 3 weeks post hospital stay, I was losing hope. But, at my 3 month follow up 12/5, I told him I now feel 1000x better. I see that as a good thing.
But if I do ever get that bad again, I want to check out. That type of misery isn't living. And I hope those who made it this far reading this, can both respect and understand why I feel this way.