Did you totally remove Tesla from consideration?
A few things I'd say, after 3-1/2 months, are a non-issue (and I often see them mentioned by non-owners):
The company / Musk, you know, all the nutty shit that has little to do with actual ownership.
The interior configuration, i.e., the single centralized display (obv. talking 3 and Y), it's just zero issue (this is coming from a driver/"Car Guy")
The upsides vs. other EVs:
Significantly better charging infrastructure, YMMV based on area/country
Higher performance options (which of course cost more)
And then I guess I'd consider things like tech, the AWD system (it's very slick), it has solid visibility, super comfy seating
I also realize price may be a factor, so it may be completely off the table, I'm not sure how it prices in the real world, in your part of the world vs. all the other options.