The years spent in that suburb of Chicago were really during the time of my most formative years and I think it was while living there that I became much more of a city/suburban sort than a small-town sort of person. I am definitely not a rural person at all!
I've had one foot in the city and one in the sticks since the mid-1980s, so I can appreciate aspects of both and have some sense of the potential downsides of both as well. But I was born in the boondocks about 40 miles from where I eventually (and coincidentally) bought a fixer-upper to retire to and meanwhile spend weekends in. So while I still do really miss NYC sometimes (and loved both Chicago and San Francisco where I also spent some "prime time"), I find the quiet of the country pretty appealing these days, even if I have also liked being only three hours from my old stomping grounds down in the city.
For variety from the boondocks, I'm still close enough to the city for the occasional shopping trip, and to places like Ithaca upstate here --think that's only 90 miles or so, anyway an easy day trip.
I'm not driving a car any more, by choice --never wanted to become one of those geezers you get behind who's 85 years old and driving 30mph in a 55-zone with a double yellow line preventing passing for 40 miles at a stretch, gawwwrrrr!! -- so my transportation options now are those of public transport and other ad hoc or pre-arrangements on the private side, but so far that has worked out ok for me. I live near the edge of a village where some friends live, so "hitchhiking" a ride to town or over to Oneonta is no more complicated than making a phone call or two to find out when someone's next heading into civilization lol.
I was used to public transportation in the city for 35 years anyway (except weekends when I grabbed the car out of the garage there and took off for the sticks) so I don't have the aversion to bus or train rides that some of my friends even here in the sticks seem to have. I never did understand that really. Planning ahead a little is not all that challenging.
Anyway also feel lucky that our four-county library system has not only lots of e-books but a $250k mobile component that stops once a month in every hamlet or village that doesn't have a bricks-and-mortar building, and will bring books you've ordered from anywhere in the system. It's only about a quarter mile from my place to where that thing parks in a nearby village.
And thank goodness for Instacart and the behemoths like Walmart and Amazon for re-ups on pantry items. As for other shopping, I'm way past that age where divesting becomes the alternate obsession. Except for Apple gear of course, and all the damn dongles, cables etc needed to get my stuff to talk around its hardware incompatibilities.
All that said, I have my moments when I wish I could put on a jacket and walk two blocks to pick up Szechuan stir fried whatever...