It seems like they're still way off when it comes to humanity and reality, the one thing they all have in common is telling you what you want to hear because they're all at war with each other to be the most accommodating.
Maybe it's just my age but I cannot fathom the idea of making such an emotional connection to an AI for any reason. It obviously has many wonderful uses but relating to a human being on their own level is just not one of them.