Ah the days of "tough love", which on its own damaged kids in a different way. Killing their confidence, and in some cases making them give up. Believe me I am nearly one of those kids. I was told in High School, by my guidance counselor mind you, to not pursue a college education but to go into the Army. Now there is nothing wrong with serving your country, but telling a kid that they are not College material in the 10th grade is pretty pathetic. If it wasn't for Mr Gallagher, my Spanish teacher, I would have probably not gone to College. Just as a side note, I was the bottom of his class, he just knew there was more to me than my mediocre grades.