Belated birthday greetings
@lizkat; I have been so busy watching The Crown (all of Season Three and just over half of Season Four) over the past week that I seem to have lost track of time.
Sample dialogue with Decent Brother (who has allowed, nay encouraged, me to piggyback on his Netflix account; indeed, my German sister-in-law yesterday told me that her brother had "fixed up" their mother - a housebound widow, as my SIL's father died two years ago - with Netflix, to which she is now happily glued, a fact which has reduced - considerably - domestic tensions in a flat in a small town in south west Germany, not too far from Heidelberg).
Anyway, I had thanked Decent Brother, and, - since I am currently devouring episodes - recommended a few that I thought were especially good.
One such was "Aberfan".
DB: The Welsh one?
Me: Yes. It's excellent.
DB: (With that lofty tone - both unusual and unexpected from this quarter - when a brother knows he has an older sister on the intellectual ropes): I thought you said that the Queen had never made any mistakes.
Me: (Rapidly consulting memory banks; hm, yes. Actually, I do recall this; I did say - ages ago - that the Queen was quite remarkable in that, over the 60 plus years of her reign, she has been extraordinarily sure footed, shown very good judgment and has not really made any mistakes): Ah, well, what I actually said -
DB: (interrupts - he is a lawyer): You said she never made any mistakes -
Me: (Attempted hasty - and, yes, cough, I will admit it: A hasty, retrospective - amendment): I said she never made any major mistakes -
DB: Aberfan was a mistake -
Me: Well, yes, she admitted that. Subsequently.
DB: - and so was the reaction to Diana's death. Not just a mistake, but this is the same mistake repeated again and again.
Ouch.
But true.
So, the lesson learned is not that just the Queen makes mistakes (but not many, not when compared with other world leaders) - well, yes, I concede she makes mistakes - but that Brothers remember what you said, store it, stash it away, squirrel it away somewhere in the recesses of their minds, and then proceed to quote it back at you
years later.
Other lesson was that Decent Brother had clearly already watched the Aberfan episode himself.